Think about how much time, thought, and love you would put into planning your dream wedding. You pick every detail the colours, the music, the vibe all because you want the day to feel like you.
Now imagine you put that same energy into planning your life. Waking up to a life that feels like you. What if you curated your future with the same care, excitement, and intentionality you’d bring to planning your dream wedding?
Start with the vision
When you plan a wedding, you don’t start by picking napkin colours. You start with a vision.
In your mind lays a picture, the mood, elegant, boho, modern and everything else flows from that.
So ask yourself:
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What’s the vibe of the life I want?
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How do I want to feel every day?
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What kind of woman do I want to become?
This isn’t about having every detail figured out. It’s about setting the tone from the inside, dream weddings are perfected in a day, they take months to years of planning. If your life had a mood board, what would be on it?
Curate, don’t copy
No two weddings are the same, and neither can two lives be.
It’s quite easy to scroll through instagram and think you have to follow someone else’s path, the same career timeline, relationship milestones, or aesthetic. But that’s like copying someone else’s wedding and expecting it to feel like a showcase of your own love story.
Curate your life like a personal Pinterest board that’s uniquely you.
Pick what fits your soul, not just what would look good on an Instagram post.
Invest in what matters
When it comes to weddings, everyone knows some things are worth splurging on (key word : Worth).
In life, that could translate into therapy, travel, personal growth, education, or even just proper rest. Splurge on things that will carry value overtime or create a lifetime of memories.
Invest in yourself like you’re the main character because this is YOUR WEDDING *(YOUR LIFE).
“With investing you get what you don’t pay for.”- Peter Lazaroff
Choose your guest list carefully
Every bride knows the guest list can make or break the vibe of the wedding.
In life, your “guest list” is your circle.
Who gets invited into your world? Who do you share your dreams with?
Surround yourself with people who genuinely celebrate your growth, not those who compete with it. You would be wise to have people who don't try to upstage the bride.
Plan the details, but enjoy moment
A wedding takes months to plan, but the best part is the actual day, when the bride finally breathes, smiles, and soaks it in. She knows she has had sleepless nights and has put the work in, and that what makes everything so worth it.
Life is similar. You can plan for months, set goals, and organise every detail but don’t forget to actually live it out, put things into action.
- Take action of the things that are to be done
- DO NOT RUSH THE PLANNING TO GET FAST RESULTS, Give yourself time and grace
- Believe in your dream, Believe that it could all be possible for you
- Enjoy the ride
Enjoy your Strawberry Matcha. Celebrate small wins. Lose and Learn.
The “big day” moments are amazing, but the little ones that make up the story are magical.
Always remember this is your Wedding
A wedding is a celebration of love. Your life should be, too.
It’s a celebration of your growth, your lessons, and your own becoming.
So say “yes” to yourself.
Yes to your wildest dreams.
Yes to peace, purpose, and the version of you you’re still becoming.
Because your life just like your wedding deserves to be beautiful, intentional, and full of love.
Your life is your biggest event. Plan it with vision, live it with joy, and never forget you’re the bride, the planner, the executor all in one.
With love,
Sincerely Feminine 💌
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